KISS

A 'kiss' (from Old English ''cyssan'' "to kiss," in turn from ''coss'' "a kiss.") is the touching with the lips. The scientific name for kissing is ''.

Contents

Origins

Kissing as affection

Kissing as symbolism

Other uses

Asymmetry in kissing

The anatomy of kissing

Screen kiss

Diseases arising from kiss

Notable kisses

In history

In Folklore

In art

In film

In theatre

In music

In photography

Trivia

See also

Notes

External links and references

Origins

Anthropologists have not reached a consensus as to whether kissing is a learned or an instinctive behavior. It may be related to grooming behavior also seen between other animals, or arising as a result of mothers premasticating food for their children.^[1] Kissing allows prospective mates to smell and taste each other's pheromones for biological compatibility. Women are subconsciously more attracted to men whose major histocompatibility complex portion of their genome is different than her own, leading to offspring with resistance to a greater number of diseases, and thus having a better chance of survival.^[2]
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[4] This explains why couples are more likely to bond if they have the right "chemistry". Many primates also exhibit kissing behavior.^[5]

Kissing as affection

In modern Western culture, kissing is most commonly an expression of affection. This is unlike many parts of the world where kissing is viewed as a means of respecting others.
Between people of close acquaintance, a kiss, often reciprocal, is offered as a greeting or farewell. This kind of kiss is typically made by brief contact of puckered lips to the skin of the cheek or no contact at all, and merely performed in the air near the cheek with the cheeks touching. Such kissing is a common greeting in European and Latin American countries between a man and a woman or between two women but also by two men in parts of Europe, the Middle East and Latin America, such as Argentina. However, in most Western societies, it is often more acceptable for women to kiss each other than men kissing each other. People sometimes kiss children to comfort them or show affection, and vice versa. This usually takes place on the forehead or cheek.
As an expression of romantic affection or sexual desire, kissing involves two people kissing one another on the lips, usually with much more intensity, and for a considerably longer period of time. In more passionate kissing couples may open their mouths, suck on each other's lips, or move their tongues into each others' mouths (see French kiss). Sexual kissing may also involve one person kissing another on various parts of the body (see Foreplay).
In romantic and sexual kissing, the physical sensations are often of primary importance.
One might find it stimulating if their partner moved their tongue in small circles against their own, or bite the lips gently. Caution should be exercised, as others may find the biting of lips distasteful and displeasing, not enjoying it.

Kissing as symbolism

When not as expression of affection, a kiss is a largely symbolic gesture in that the purpose of the kiss is to convey a meaning, such as salutations or subordination, rather than to experience the physical sensations associated with kissing. Kisses on the cheek as salutations are traditional in many parts of continental Europe, and the number of kisses, alternating cheeks, depends on which region one comes from.
Kissing may also be used to signify reverence and subordination, as in kissing the ring of a queen or other figure. A kiss can also be rude or done for the sake of irritating or proving one's superiority.
A more ominous use of the kiss is as a symbol of condemnation as may be observed when a crime lord kisses an underling, in effect imposing a death sentence upon that person, the ultimate "goodbye kiss" or the "kiss of death". Indeed, in the Bible, Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss.
The term ''Kissing Hands'' is used to formally describe the appointment of the senior state figures to office by British monarchs. Though in the past, the monarch's hand was actually kissed, this is no longer so. When figures such as the British Prime Minister, cabinet members and diplomatics are formally appointed, they are said to have ''Kissed Hands''. (Kissing the hand is still practised as a romantic flourish, especially in Latin countries.)
In the Eastern Orthodox Church, kissing is a sign of veneration or respect. People kiss icons to show their veneration to the person depicted in the icon. When a layman meets a priest, he holds out his hands and says "Father, bless". The priest will then bless him and hold out his hand for the layman to kiss. During the Divine Liturgy, the congregants come to the front of the church to kiss the Book of the Gospels and the blessing Cross at various parts of the service (after kissing these the congregants also kiss the priest's hand). Congregants also kiss the chalice and the priest's hand after receiving Holy Communion, to show their respect to the Body and Blood of Christ.
Kissing the hand of a religious leader is often observed among Shia or Sufi followers of Islam, as well.

Other uses

The term is also used for expressions of affection that do not involve the lips. The "Eskimo kiss" is executed by the two individuals gently rubbing the tips of their noses together. In the Māori culture of New Zealand people greet each other by pressing noses together; this gesture is called a ''hongi''. A "butterfly kiss" consists of two people putting their eyes close to each other and fluttering their eyelashes upon one another's.{cn} A caterpillar kiss consists of two people rubbing their eyebrows together.
The kiss does not exist in all cultures, as certain societies find it repugnant.In Burmese Days, George Orwell notes that the Burmese do not kiss at all, and have no word for the practice.
A kiss can be "blown" using actions of the hand and the mouth. This is used to convey affection usually while parting, when the partners are physically distant but can view each other. Blown kisses are also used when a popular person wishes to convey affection to a large crowd or audience.
Roman men would kiss their wives on the mouth on arrival home from work to test if they had been drinking during the day.
A study by researchers at University at Albany found that women use kiss as a tool to find the right father for their children and to judge men exclusively on the quality of the first kiss that they share.^[6]

Asymmetry in kissing

To avoid a clash of noses while kissing, couples often turn their faces slightly to one side, thereby orienting their heads at an angle with respect to each other.
To make this position more comfortable, one member of the couple may support the other, perhaps across the lap or in an embrace—thus combining hugging with kissing. The person supporting the other may tend to take the more active role in the kiss. Writing in ''Nature'', psychologist Onur Güntürkün observed couples kissing in public places such as airports and parks; his research demonstrated that by a 2:1 ratio the direction of turn is more frequently to the right than to the left. Güntürkün ascribed this asymmetry to a neonatal right-side preference
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The anatomy of kissing

Kissing is a complex behaviour that requires significant muscular coordination; in fact, a total of twenty muscles working cooperatively. The most important muscle involved is the orbicularis oris muscle, which is used to pucker the lips and informally known as the ''kissing muscle''. The tongue can also be an important part of the kiss.

Screen kiss

A 'screen kiss' is one portrayed in a film (the equivalent act in a play is known as a stage kiss). The plot of a film or play may involve characters falling in love with each other, but the actors playing this role might not have any personal relationship with each other whatsoever. Because sharing a kiss is a private, emotive experience for many people, actors often report kissing to be one of the most difficult aspects of their profession, in that it requires them to convey the feeling of passion and love when none is present.
Young actors and actresses in particular may find screen kisses embarrassing and require time to accustom themselves to the task at hand. In the case of some sitcoms who utilize a laugh track or film the show in front of live audiences, whenever a popular male lead shares a kiss with an equally popular female lead, the audience reacts with a collective "OoooooOOOOOooooh!" in a somewhat teasing fashion. This is an example of a typical sitcom audience reaction.

★ The 1896 short film ''The Kiss'' featured the first known screen kiss, a forty-seven second recreation of a stage kiss from the musical The Widow Jones. The movie was considered scandalous at the time of its release but has since entered film history as one of the most memorable early films. The longest onscreen kiss was performed by Gregory Smith and Stephanie Sherrin in the 2005 film ''Kids in America'' and lasted "just over six minutes."

★ ''Lady and the Tramp'' is a 1955 animated feature film produced by Walt Disney Productions, and originally released to theaters on June 16, 1955 by Buena Vista Distribution. It's known for its unexpected animated screen kiss over a plate of spaghetti.

Diseases arising from kiss

Kissing can result in the transmission of diseases from one another. These diseases include Mononucleosis, herpes, and even HIV has been recorded in one case.^[7]

Notable kisses

In history

★ At the Diocleia festival at Megara in honour of Diocles, lover of Philolaus, a kissing contest was held in which boys would kiss a male judge, who awarded a laurel wreath to the boy he deemed the best kisser.^[8]

★ In the gospels, Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss on the cheek—a subversive use of the kiss.

★ The Romans distinguished three types of kiss: ''osculum'', a friendship kiss on the cheek; ''basium'', a kiss of affection on the lips; and ''suavium'' (also known as savium), a lovers' deep kiss.

★ Lord Nelson, British naval commander, famously requested "Kiss me, Hardy", as he lay dying (although they were not, as often reported, his last words).

In Folklore

★ In the fairytale "Sleeping Beauty" and the Greek myth of Pygmalion and Galatea, a romantic kiss is used by a male to awaken or breathe life into a female, illustrating an archetype feminist critics have interpreted as symbolising the idea that women do not have life unless their sexuality is awakened through the attention of men.

★ In American retellings of the fairytale "Frog Prince," it is the male who is transformed from frog to man by a kiss.

In art

★ Works entitled ''The Kiss'' were painted by both Gustav Klimt, Francesco Hayez and Edvard Munch.

★ Auguste Rodin created the sculpture ''The Kiss'' (''Le Baiser'').

★ Andy Warhol made an avant-garde film, ''the kiss'', closeups of couples kissing.

★ The French photographer Robert Doisneau shot a couple kissing by the Hotel de Ville (Paris) in 1950. The photo, later called "The Kiss," is now considered a classic, a fact one couple alleging to be the subjects of the photo attempted to exploit in their unsuccessful 1990s lawsuit against the photographer.

★ Tanya Chalkin's ''Kiss'', a black-and-white photo of two young women embracing, has become something of a pop culture icon in recent years.

In film

★ ''The Kiss'', an 1896 film is famous for creating controversy over the filming of what was then considered a strictly private act.

★ ''The Kid'', a 1921 film, in which the Tramp, Charlie Chaplin, gives a kiss on the mouth of the Kid, Jackie Coogan. This scene is considered to be the first in film history, in which a man kisses a boy on the mouth.

★ In ''Lady and the Tramp'', as Lady and Tramp simultaneously eat a spaghetti noodle from opposite ends, their lips meet in the middle. Homages to and parodies of this scene have appeared in several movies, including ''Hot Shots! Part Deux''.

★ In ''The Princess Bride'', the narrator comments on Westley and Buttercup's kiss: "Since the invention of the kiss, there have been five kisses that were rated the most passionate, the most pure. This one left them all behind."

★ In the 1989 animated disney film, ''The Little Mermaid'', Sebastian sings "Kiss the Girl" to Ariel and Prince Eric in an attempt to break the spell put upon Ariel.

★ In '', Michael Corleone gives an unnaturally aggressive kiss on the mouth to his brother, Fredo, effectively telling him that he is disowned from the family because he betrayed its interests. Michael has Fredo killed. This kiss has been called by mafia movie fans as "the kiss of death."

★ In the first ''Spider-Man'' film, Mary-Jane Watson kisses her hero as he is suspended upside down from a web.

★ In the Italian movie ''Cinema Paradiso'', the lead character Salvatore was watching a reel he inherited from a friend, the projectionist Alfredo, with all the famous cinema kissing montage that was cut because of censure.

★ One of the most famous movie kisses is the scene in ''Titanic'', with Kate Winslet's arms being raised in the air as she kisses Leonardo DiCaprio.

★ One favorite of many young girls, and older women as well, is "The Notebook", in which Allie (Rachel McAdams) and Noah (Ryan Gosling) share a romantic kiss in the pouring rain

★ A look at the famous film kisses in cinema history. Famous Film Kisses

In theatre

★ In William Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet, Romeo first greets Juliet with an exchange of metaphors stating that he wants to kiss her. Romeo starts by comparing Juliet to a shrine that his "unworthiest hands" are defiling by touching, and his lips to "two blushing pilgrims" who want to make it up to her. Juliet retorts that Romeo, as a pilgrim, should not degrade his hands as "hand-to-hand is holy palmers kiss," meaning they Juliet (saint) and Romeo (pilgrim) can "kiss" hand to hand. Romeo asks why pilgrims and saints can't use their lips, and Juliet responds that saints must use them in prayer. Romeo then gets his kisses by saying that their lips should do what praying hands do (come together). Juliet gives in, but playing the saint, she will not move.

In music

★ The Turkish singer Tarkan's 1997 hit song "Şımarık" has a chorus that ends with two kiss sounds. A cover version performed by Australian Holly Valance is entitled "Kiss Kiss."

★ The Billy Idol-fronted band Generation X made a song called "Kiss Me Deadly"

★ The Violent Femmes recorded a song called "Kiss Off"

★ KISS is an American rock band from New York.

★ "This Kiss" was the first single off of American country singer Faith Hill's 1998 Faith album.

★ The singer Prince released a song called "Kiss", that was later covered by Tom Jones.

★ The Cure released their album "Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me" in 1987.

★ Kiss Me is a song recorded by Sixpence None the Richer and released on the 1997 album Sixpence None the Richer. It reached number two on the U.S. Hot 100 and number four on the Canadian Singles Chart, making it the group's highest-charting single across the world.

★ "Kiss Me When I Cry" by NELSON

★ "The World's a Mess, It's in My Kiss" by X

★ "Kiss Yourself Goodbye" by the All-American Rejects

★ "Kiss Me Goodbye" by Angela Aki was used in the Playstation 2 RPG Final Fantasy XII

★ "Kiss (Korean group) was a Korean girl group that disbanded in 2002 after one year

★ "Amazing Kiss" is a song by Korean singer BoA

★ "Kiss" and "Kiss the Future" are songs by Japanese singer Kotoko

★ "Something 'bout the Kiss" is a Japanese song by Namie Amuro

★ "One Kiss" by Sweetbox

★ "Kiss" was an instrumental piece composed by Yuki Kajiura for the anime .hack//SIGN

★ "First Kiss" by Tom Waits

★ "The kiss", skit by Eminem (in the album The Eminem Show)

★ "I'm In Heaven (When You Kiss Me) by A Touch of Class

In photography

★ Alfred Eisenstaedt's 1945 LIFE magazine photograph of a sailor stamping a masterly kiss on a nurse in New York City's Times Square was taken Aug. 14, 1945, V-J Day. This photo is considered one of Times Square's most memorable photographs. In 2007, a Houston forensics expert verified the identity of the sailor as Glenn McDuffie, who had claimed to be the individual in the photo for many years....[2]

Trivia

★ The longest recorded kiss took place in New York City, USA, on December 5, 2001, between Louisa Almedovar and Rich Langley. It lasted 30 hours, 59 minutes and 27 seconds.^[9]

★ Kissing is the name of a town in Germany between Augsburg and Munich.

★ In written correspondence a kiss has been represented by the letter 'X' since at least 1763.^[10]

★ The world record for the largest group kiss was set on 22nd July 2007 in Weston-super-Mare at Channel 4's T4 on the Beach. More than 32,000 people kissed for 20 seconds, smashing the previous record set in France by over 30,000 people.

★ On September 1, 2007, 6980 couples kissed for 10 seconds in Tuzla, Bosnia erasing the previous Guinness World kissing Records of the Philippines and Hungary (for synchronised osculation in 2004 with 5327 Filipino couples, overtaken by Hungary in 2005 with 5875 couples; Filipinos came back in February this year with 6124 couples but the Hungarians responded in June with 6613 couples). The record now awaits official certification.^[11]

See also

★ Air kiss

★ Cheek kissing

★ Hand Kissing

★ French kiss

★ Eskimo kiss

★ Holy kiss

★ Hand shaking

★ Spin the bottle

★ Hugs and Kisses

★ Making out

★ The kiss of Judas

★ Kissing Traditions

★ Hug

Notes

1. http://www.langmaker.com/db/Premastication
2. New evidence that the MHC influences odor perception in humans: a study with 58 Southern Brazilian students., , PS, Santos, Hormones & Behavior, 2005
3. MHC-dependent mate preferences in humans, , C., Wedekind, Proceedings: Biological Sciences, 1995
4. Why do humans kiss?
5. How animals kiss and make up
6. The first kiss is key to winning a woman
7. How stuff works
8. Theocritus, Idyll 12:30
9. The International World Record Breakers' Club: The World Record for the Longest Kiss
10. Oxford English Dictionary - X
11. SMH, Record breakers: Ready, set - now pucker up for Bosnia

External links and references

★ On Kissing from the Kama Sutra, at kamasutra-sex.org.

★ BBC First Kiss, Last Kiss, Best Kiss and Worst Kiss at h2g2

★ howstuffworks.com Kissing article

★ Sydney Morning Herald Article discussing the evolution of kissing