'Daniel Keenan Savage' (born
October 7,
1964[1] near
Chicago,
Illinois,
United States) is an openly
gay American sex advice columnist,
author, media
pundit,
journalist, and newspaper
editor. His strong opinions pointedly clash with both traditional
conservative moral values and those put forth by what Savage has been known to call the "gay establishment." Savage has also worked as a theater director, both under his real name and under the name 'Keenan Hollahan', using his
middle name and his grandmother's
maiden name.
[2]
Savage Love
Savage is best known for penning the internationally syndicated relationship and sex advice column "
Savage Love". Its tone is
humorous, profane, and often hostile to
social conservatives, as in the
Santorum controversy.
The idea for the column began while Savage was living in
Madison,
Wisconsin, and working as a manager at Four Star Video Heaven, a popular local video store that specialized in independent film titles. A friend from ''
The Onion'' newspaper, which was also based in Madison, was launching ''
The Stranger'', and Savage suggested it should have an advice column. To his surprise, ''The Stranger's publisher, Tim Keck, not knowing that he would be offered the position.
[Dan Savage interviewed by Tasha Robinson, ''The A.V. Club'', February 8, 2006.][3]
Savage stated in a February 2006, interview in ''The Onion's ''A.V. Club'' section (which publishes his column) that he began the column with the express purpose of providing mocking advice to
heterosexuals. "Forever, I'd read letters that had been written from straight advice columnists to gay people. Sometimes the advice was okay, but often it was clueless about gay issues or gay people or gay sex or gay rights. And I just thought it would be funny for once if there was an advice column written by a gay person where straight people had to get slapped around or treated with contempt."
[ Savage wanted to call the column "Hey Faggot!" His editors at the time refused his choice of column name, but for the first several years of the column, he attached "Hey Faggot!" at the beginning of each printed letter as a salutation. According to Savage:]
:When I started writing this column in 1991, there was a debate raging in hellish homosexual circles about words like faggot. The idea was that if we used these words ourselves--Queer Nation, Dyke March, "Hey, Faggot"--straights couldn't use them as hate words anymore. I chose "Hey, Faggot" as my salutation in joking reference to this lively debate about reclaiming hate words.[Dan Savage, Savage Love: Farewell, Faggot, ''The Stranger'', February 25, 1999.]
In his February 25, 1999 column, Savage announced he was retiring the phrase:
:Lo many columns later, it feels strange to begin every column with a joke about a debate that ended years ago.
Recently, he has written in a number of columns about "straight rights" concerns, such as the HPV vaccine and the morning-after pill, saying in his November 9 2005, column that "[t]he right-wingers and the fundies and the sex-phobes don't just have it in for the queers. They're coming for your asses too."
Other projects
In addition to his weekly article and authoring four books, Savage is involved in several other projects.
He is currently the editor of the Seattle weekly newspaper ''The Stranger'' and a contributor to ''This American Life'', an hour-long radio show on Chicago's WBEZ syndicated by PRI . In January 2007 he mentioned in an article that he had been approached for the editorship of a New York-based magazine, but did not disclose the publication.[4]
From at least September 1994 until 1997, he had a weekly 2-hour call-in show called ''Savage Love Live'' on Seattle's KCMU (now KEXP). From 1998 to 2000, he ran the bi-weekly advice column ''Dear Dan'' on the news website abcnews.com. Savage is also a frequent contributor to ''Out'' magazine.
Theatrical works
Savage studied theater and history in college at the University of Illinois; as a theater director, Savage (working under the name "Keenan Hollahan") was a founder of Seattle's Greek Active Theater. Much of the group's work was queer re-contextualizations of classic works, such as a tragicomic ''Macbeth'' with both the title character and Lady Macbeth played by performers of the opposite gender. More recently, in March 2001 he directed his own ''Egguus'', a parody of Peter Shaffer's 1973 play ''Equus'' that exchanged a fixation on horses for a fixation on chickens. Savage has not directed, produced, or performed in any productions since a 2001 production of his trimmed version of Mark Twain's "The Diary of Adam and Eve," which received poor reviews, including an extremely negative review from his own paper.
Podcast
A podcast of Dan Savage's column Savage Love is available for download both at iTunes and at the ''Stranger's website for free download. It features Dan doing a call-in version of his sex advice column.
Opinions and point of view
Political advocacy
Savage has written about his interest in political matters. His political leanings are primarily leftist or liberal, with a pronounced libertarian streak.
Dan Savage at the 5th Avenue High School Musical Theatre Awards, 2006
In 2000, he wrote that while suffering from the influenza virus while on an assignment for salon.com to cover the Iowa caucuses,[5] he was so angered by televised remarks in opposition to same-sex marriage by conservative Republican presidential hopeful Gary Bauer that he abandoned his original plan "to follow one of the loopy conservative Christian candidates around—Bauer or Alan Keyes—and write something insightful and humanizing about him, his campaign, and his supporters."
Instead, he volunteered for the Bauer campaign, intending to infect the candidate with his flu. He wrote that he'd licked doorknobs and other objects in the campaign office, and handed Bauer a saliva-coated pen, hoping to pass the disease on to Bauer and his supporters (though he later said that much of the article had been fictitious). He also registered and participated in the caucus, which was illegal, as Savage was not an Iowa resident. He was charged and pled guilty to a misdemeanor charge of fraudulent voting in a caucus, and was sentenced to a year's probation, 50 hours of community service, and a $750 fine.[6][7][8][9]
Savage often makes mention of political issues in his column, particularly issues that affect family planning, birth control, and sexuality. He often encourages readers to get involved, and often voices a positive or negative opinion about a politician or public official. After Rick Santorum, then a United States senator from Pennsylvania, made comments to a reporter comparing homosexual sex to bestiality and incest, Savage assailed Santorum in his columns, and eventually had a contest that ultimately led to the name ''santorum'' being used to refer to a byproduct of anal sex.[10]
Savage also strongly supported the war in Iraq in the pages of ''The Stranger'' in October 2002.[11] By the time of the U.S. invasion in March 2003, however, he had somewhat softened his argument.[12]
Personal opinions
Savage often surprises readers by defending unexpected positions. Among his more surprising or controversial statements:
★ Savage wrote a piece questioning the validity of the gay pride parade as a way to build community.
★ Savage initially supported the Iraq war and advocated military action against other Middle Eastern states, including Iran and Saudi Arabia. He later supported sending additional American troops to Iraq to increase security in the country. However, he now deems the situation hopeless and advocates for an immediate troop withdrawal.[13]
★ He describes his view towards family as "conservative", and his boyfriend, Terry Miller, is a "stay-at-home dad" for the couple's adopted son. He has, however, expressed skepticism of "simplistic" views of monogamy.[14]
★ He has often clashed with other prominent figures in Seattle's gay community. For example, he has often expressed contempt for the editorial calibre of the ''Seattle Gay News''.
★ Under his editorship, ''The Stranger'' frequently publishes criticisms of the messages put out by local AIDS organizations and of how they handle their money.
★ In response to a letter asking "Is the AIDS crisis over?" Savage, in his October 22, 1997 column, answered simply, "Yes." Several weeks of columns were devoted in whole or in part to discussion of the issue.[15][16]
★ In an interview with the ''Daily Pennsylvanian'', Savage stated that then-Green Party Senate candidate Carl Romanelli, who he claimed was partially funded by state Republicans for a spoiler effect against Democrat Bob Casey, "should be dragged behind a pickup truck until there's nothing left but the rope." (See James Byrd, Jr.) In the same interview, he stated, "Mr. Romanelli should go fuck himself."[17] For this comment, Savage wrote right after the interview that "I regret using that truck metaphor, and didn't mean it literally, and it was in poor taste, and I regret it."[18]
Views on outing
Savage stated in a column that he favours outing in some cases. He specifically mentioned Tyler Whitney, an anti-gay activist who is himself gay. However in the same column he said that he "recently talked someone ''out'' of outing a public figure. A ''Savage Love'' reader was contemplating outing an innocuous celeb back in April. I advised him against it because, as I wrote to him privately, outing is brutal and it should be reserved for brutes."[19]
Local issues
Savage's editorship of ''The Stranger'' has established him as a voice in local Seattle politics. His most high-profile commentary has been as an outspoken critic of the Teen Dance Ordinance and other crackdowns on all-ages events.
Savage argues that closing down supervised all-ages dance venues drives teens to boredom and reckless activities: "Places like Ground Zero and the Kirkland Teen Center are invaluable from a law enforcement point of view. They keep kids out of, say, 7-Eleven parking lots or the homes of friends whose parents are away."[20]
Religion
Savage declared in his syndicated sex advice column: "I'm Catholic — in a cultural sense, not an eat-the-wafer, say-the-rosary, burn-down-the-women's-health-center sense. I attended Quigley Preparatory Seminary North, a Catholic high school in Chicago for boys thinking of becoming priests. I got to meet the Pope in 1979 when he dropped by our school during his visit to Chicago".[21] Shortly after the death of Pope John Paul II, he wrote in the same column:
:John Paul II had more "no's" for straight people than he did for gays. But when he tried to meddle in the private lives of straights, the same people who deferred to his delicate sensibilities where my rights were concerned suddenly blew [him] off. Gay blowjobs are expendable, it seems; straight ones are sacred.
:So I can't get behind this orgy of cheap and easy piety . . .. I'm sorry the old bastard's dead, I'm sorry he suffered. But I'm not so sorry that I won't stoop to working John Paul II into a column about zombie fetishism.
Ann Landers
On December 3, 2002, Savage announced in an article that he had purchased columnist Ann Landers' desk; she had died earlier in the year (on June 22).[22]
Dan Savage has facetiously referred to Ann Landers as his "college roommate"[23] and said "I like to think of myself as a gay Ann Landers."[24]
Publications
★ ''Savage Love: Straight Answers from America's Most Popular Sex Columnist'' (October 1998) (ISBN 0-452-27815-5), a collection of letters from his column.
★ ''The Kid'' (1999) (ISBN 0-525-94525-3), relating how he and his boyfriend adopted a baby boy through open adoption. (June 8, 2000)
★ ''Skipping Towards Gomorrah: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Pursuit of Happiness in America'' (2002) (ISBN 0-452-28416-3), which describes his exploration of the seven deadly sins (September 1, 2003. The title is a satiric reference to Robert Bork's book ''Slouching Towards Gomorrah: Modern Liberalism and American Decline''.)
★ ''The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage, and My Family'' (2005) (ISBN 0-525-94907-0), a memoir of his life, relationship and family and a commentary on the gay marriage debate. (September 27, 2005)
Notes
1. ''This American Life'', [1], 32:22–32:32.
2. Kittenpants interview with Dan Savage, ''Kittenpants'', 04.10.01 Issue 9.
3. Dan Savage, Introduction, ''Savage Love: Straight Answers from America's Most Popular Sex Columnist'' (New York: Plume, 1998), pp. 4-5.
4. Dan Savage, Mountain High, ''The Stranger'', January 17, 2007.
5. Salon.com's editorial, "The firestorm over 'Stalking Gary Bauer'"
6. ''Des Moines Register'' article.
7. NewsWrap for the week ending November 11, 2000, ''This Way Out'' program #659, November 13, 2000.
8. Dan Savage on NNDB.
9. Dan Savage, Germ Warfare, ''The Stranger'', January 27–February 2, 2000.
10. uma, Anal Sex Byproduct Named for Senator Santorum, Indymedia.org, December 11, 2003.
11. Dan Savage, Say "YES" to War on Iraq, ''The Stranger'', October 17–October 23, 2002. Accessed online 6 November 2006.
12. Dan Savage, Against the War--For Now March 13–March 19, 2003. Accessed online 6 November 2006.
13. Dan Savage, It's over, over there, ''The Stranger'', August 18, 2005.
14. Dan Savage, Savage Love: I, Monogamous, ''The Stranger'', September 23, 1999.
15. Reprinted in Savage, ''Savage Love: Straight Answers from America's Most Popular Sex Columnist'', ''op. cit.'', pp. 291-98.
16. Dan Savage, Savage Love (column), ''SF Weekly'', November 19, 1997.
17. Stephen Morse interview with Dan Savage, October 12, 2006. Accessed online 12 February 2007.
18. Five Minutes with Dan, October 12, 2006. Accessed online 30 April 2007.
19. Dan Savage, Savage Love (column), ''The A.V. Club'', June 20, 2007.
20. Josh Feit and Dan Savage, "Raving Mad", ''The Stranger'', March 30–April 5, 2006. Accessed 6 April 2006.
21. Dan Savage,
Savage Love (column), ''The Village Voice'', April 12, 2005. In fact, Pope John Paul II did not drop by Quigley North; he did come to Quigley South at 77th and south Western Avenue, where students of the entire Chicago seminary system were invited to greet him; the Pope used the Quigley South chapel for a meeting of all the North American Catholic bishops. See "Papal Visit to Quigley South, October 5, 1979" on Quigley's official site.
22. Dan Savage, "Savage Love: Advice Regarding Minors; Childbirth Fetish; I Bought Ann Landers's Desk!", ''The Village Voice'', December 4-December 10, 2002.
23. Dan Savage, "Savage Love: Lonely, Suicidal, and POPULAR!", ''The Stranger'', August 10, 2000.
24. Dan Savage, Introduction, ''Savage Love: Straight Answers from America's Most Popular Sex Columnist'', ''op. cit.'', p. 9.
External links
★ Savage Love - Savage's weekly sex advice column
★ Dan Savage archives on the site of ''The Stranger''
★ Savage Love 2.0, a collection of Savage's columns
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★ Spreading Santorum, Savage's "santorum" campaign website
★ Audio interview on The Sound of Young America: MP3 Link
★ ''College Crier'' Interview of Dan Savage
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